July 16, 2009

Thank you all so much for your prayers on behalf of Carol and the boys! It is still a crazy, chaotic, painful time...BUT, in the moment that Carol had to leave an update tonight, she sounded--

Calm.

And maybe it was just in that moment, and there are a million other times throughout the day that are challenging and difficult and overwhelming...but, we are so thankful that their are small moments of calm, too.

Friends and family are continuing to surround the Lagues...and today, Carol actually had a chance to get out with a small group of girls to get a manicure and a pedicure. God has, without a doubt, put people in place to help her through this...and she is so grateful for all of the help, all of the errand running, all of the plans and food, and airport pick-ups and phone calls. I am personally thankful that Carol has taken a little time for herself today--I don't think I could ever adequately put in to words how long this road has been for her, and how awesome it is that she was surrounded today by women she loves, doing a little pampering :)!

Scattered is the word she did use to describe herself at this point...mixed with a large dose of stress. Continue to pray for her strength and comfort--but also for her ability to be served and cared for. That she wouldn't feel the need to be a perfect hostess (as much as that is in her nature), that she would enjoy those around her without worrying about meeting their needs, that she would slow down and rest when she needs to, and also be free to grieve when her heart is heavy.

Plans for Dan's funeral service are falling into place, and Carol is looking forward to the special touches that have been worked into it. She's also had time to sit down with the boys and go through what this weekend will look like--so they are prepared (at least in logistics) for what's to come in the next couple of days. It goes without saying that you can pray for their young hearts, that they would grieve their father but also see the silver lining of heaven. Tall order, but the Lord is capable of working all things for his good...

One last thing: pray for sleep for Carol, who is having a bit of trouble putting her mind to rest. A good night of rest would be a blessing for her.